Why is it when we think we have truly let go, we find ourselves there again? What is it about the subject that draws us back in? Wanting and needing to let something/someone go isn’t as easy as one may think it is.
If it resurfaces it’s like a sign to revisit the situation. Or is it?
A friend shared with me recently finding themselves thinking, wanting, and needing, someone from their past. They had let this person go a long time ago. However found themselves thinking about this person all the time. When they reached out, the person wasn’t always receptive. Which should have been sign #1, if someone is interested in you, they will show it, they will respond to you, they will make what’s called an effort.
They would often get together do things, hang out, but nothing more then that. Knowing this persons past my friend knew they just weren’t in the same space. Sign #2 they were working through their storms. When someone has storms happening in their season, we need to let those work through the storms. How would they be good for anyone? aaaaaa……they can’t be, if you are not good for yourself, how can you be good for anyone?
Sign #3 stop thinking just because you hear the persons name it’s a sign, just because you find yourself in a scenario like one you might have been in with someone, it’s not a sign to reach out. Life has chapters, we have read and go through each chapter in order for us to get to the end of the book to start the next.
Here is what I know…….
Expect nothing, appreciate everything.
