Once upon a time ago it was quite….Then BAM came the Noise, Noise, Noise….
Let me explain… Boy Noise! Yes Boy equals Noise….. When you least expect it. They come out of the woodwork.. You show who you are to them right out of the gate. As you should, why hold off? Don’t!..You need to keep it real, always keep it real!……..
Herein is the problem with them, not you……They feel and think something better is going to come along, or that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence…. And….They do have one of many different ways to check out from you….. Maybe he’s that guy who just leaves. Maybe he’s that guy that halts all contact. Maybe he’s that guy that strings you along. Maybe he’s that guy…………..so on and so on and so on…….
Here is the kicker…. They ALL come back.. At some point, they all come back. Once they realize they had a good thing, and you were and are truly amazing, they kick themselves quietly. They stop and think, how can get back into her good graces to even open up conversation again… Hummmm.. Let’s play this out, they suggest they freaked out.. Why because perhaps you paid attention, completely paid attention to the details he shared with you and you showed him in some way that you did indeed paid attention to detail. Or the reason he halted all contact was because he wasn’t sure you shared the same interests. Or maybe there wasn’t a connection. Maybe he strung you along because he just wasn’t sure what he wanted. BLAH BLAH BLAH…
Whatever the case may be, haven’t we all heard it before. Every excuse in the book.
But stop…..When you are trying to understand this all a sudden comes the noise, noise, noise… It’s not just one reaching back out, but all a sudden those you might have meet a year or 2 ago, seemed to resurface… It’s not just 2, but 4, 5 even 6 at once.. NOISE, NOISE, NOISE…What the heck we think to ourselves. Flattering as it may seem, what do they want. I’ll tell you what they want. What they should have realized was there the entire time, the AWESOME YOU that you are! Overlooked it my ass, freaked out…..whatever, I didn’t know what I wanted, get over yourself already… Bottom line is it’s NOISE, NOISE, NOISE and no one has time for that.
Here is what I know………Don’t loose site of who you are because you hope so badly he’ll come around…. He will eventually, they all COME BACK. Just keep this in mind, when he does come back, you will be stronger knowing this about yourself. You and only you will be able to decide if he’s worth the second chance. And this time around make it all about you!
