Even when we think we know what we want.
It’s really what our heart is telling us….what we want….
After being away from someone for some time, in hopes to get over them, they are still on your mind. When you drift off to sleep, when you wake up, when you hear their name, when something happens around you that reminds you of them. That’s the heart…..It knows what it wants and what you need.
But just jumping back into it, thinking maybe that person feels the same way without any notion what they are really feeling. Could mean happiness, love, a connection, disappointment, hurt, sadness, a whole slue of emotions that you thought you had control of. Well you might, and you might not. People come and go in our lives, some leave a lasting impression that is hard to let go of. Even when we know it’s the best thing we should do for ourselves. So we keep these emotions in check and make sure not to do something like send an oopsss text, or a butt dial, or re-reading old text messages, in hopes to maybe hold on to something that is no longer there.
Listen if it was meant to be, then it was meant to be. It’s really all about timing….
Delete those old text message,s even the photos, anything to help you just get over them, and be able to feel as though you are at the very least moving on. By not having these things to go back to, will help, it will. It’s a liberating feeling to do this and know you have some control over that piece of the letting go. Now with that being said we all know they come back. Some take longer then others to come back. But at some level they all come back. With that being said, don’t hold out to much hope though. Why waist your time? You have an amazing LIFE to Live, so go do it! Don’t wait around. If they do come back, think long and hard, why they left or why you let them go. And ask yourself this, are they worth the effort to give them time to share with you what they want now? Only you will know.
Here is what I know……
Live your life! Don’t wait around for anyone… You are the only person you have to answer to. You are the one looking at yourself in the mirror at the end of the day. Don’t let the past dictate how you are feeling today. Get over it already! Or at the very least, attempt to meet new people and rediscover yourself. You might be surprised what you find! The you, that has always been there!
